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Stay At Home Dads are a Good Thing!!!

In child custody, Child Custody Issues, Child Support, Parental Alienation, Paternity Issues, Strategy Issues on July 25, 2010 at 10:15 am

This article from Huffington Post, and the related video on the benefits to children of stay at home, and the abilities of fathers to be good parents identifies a cultural trend that I am happy to be part of!!!!

It says that men make excellent parents and that the cultural bias that mothers are naturally better is more a matter of they’ve had more practice, than actual parenting skills. As women have entered the workforce and more men stay home, we’re going to see this myth, like so many others, fall by the roadside.

Dad and son in the sunset

Father and son.

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Fighting for Child Custody? How not to lose the battle.

In child custody, Child Custody Issues, Child Support, Domestic Violence, Gay, Parental Alienation, Paternity Issues, Strategy Issues on July 23, 2010 at 9:14 am

Most of the men fighting for Child Custody I represent would do ANYTHING FOR THEIR CHILDREN. It’s one of the reasons they work so hard, which tragically, becomes the millstone around their necks that the ex-wife uses. I address the strategic issue of whether to move or not in this article posted at The Good Men Project.

Short Version – NEVER LEAVE THE HOUSE UNLESS YOU HAVE TO.

child custody battle over visitation

Child being torn between mother and father.

No Prenuptial Agreement for Kelsey Grammer

In Prenuptial Agreements, Property Issues, Spousal Support, Strategy Issues on July 15, 2010 at 1:19 pm

Perez Hilton is reporting that Kelsey Grammer didn’t have a prenuptial agreement for this marriage. At the time he was making 1.6 Million per episode and had 7 years to go on the series.

That’s gonna hurt! PRENUPS! PRENUPS! PRENUPS!

A Father’s Best Weapon In A Child Custody Battle

In child custody, Child Custody Issues, Child Support, Parental Alienation, Paternity Issues, Perjury, Property Issues on July 15, 2010 at 6:49 am

Here’s a video I did, talking about Child Custody and Child Support battles with RJ Jaramillo from www.SingleDad.Com, where I’m the legal expert. I tell guys the tools I need to win their child custody case and track the child support so they can prove they’ve paid it.

There are more videos on the MensFamilyLaw channel at Youtube.com.

PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENTS CAN SAVE LEGAL FEES UPON DIVORCE

In Gay, Property Issues, Spousal Support, Strategy Issues on July 6, 2010 at 3:00 am

I sent out a press release this past week. I offered to give Kyle Boller a free pre-nuptial agreement, prior to his marriage to that ill-fated beauty queen Carrie Prejean, and I offered to do his eventual divorce from her for free. divorce cake for prenuptial

Prejean, who rose to national fame with her very public condemnation of same-sex marriage in the 2009 Miss USA contest, based on her devout religious beliefs, and then reached international fame with the fight over publication of her “sex tape” married Boller on Friday, July 2 at The Grand Del Mar hotel in San Diego.

This is a marriage that has a high probability of failure, not because of Ms. Prejean’s bigoted and homophobic statements, nor her inability to live up to the standards she holds others to, but the fact that it is a marriage of a professional athlete and a celebrity seeker. We’ve all seen it thousands of times. These marriages have two people who are going in different directions. And that is a major problem in marriages. My own experience with a long term relationship that broke up, is that we are both wonderful people. But with very different wants and directions.

My ex is a very fair skinned, red haired man of Welsh extraction who shuns the heat and sun of the desert. I crave it. I love the ocean and swimming, him, not so much. Like, not at all. It’s rather like I wanted to go North and he wanted to go East, neither is right or wrong, but our wants were just not lining up. When I realized that, it was amazing how quickly the heat and anger of a breakup dissipated. It’s what has allowed us to remain, if not become better, friends.

In California more than 60% of first marriages end in divorce, especially of people in their 20’s, but what is lesser known is that divorce rates for Evangelical Christians, such as Ms. Prejean, still runs at more than 33%.  This, coupled with a report conducted by Professional Athletes Outreach that states that two years after retirement, 78% of N.F.L. players are bankrupt, jobless or divorced, it may be have been wise for Mr. Boller to consider a good prenuptial agreement.

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Portugal Soccer Star Cristiano Ronaldo Becomes Single Dad

In child custody, Child Custody Issues, Paternity Issues on July 4, 2010 at 6:20 am
Congratulations are in order for Cristiano Ronaldo who announced today that his is a single father, and will assume full guardianship of his son. It’s great to see high profile men like him putting a face on single fathers.
Single Father Cristiano assumes Guardianship of his son.
MADRID (AP) — Cristiano Ronaldo has become a father, according to his website, although the mother’s identity is being kept a secret.

The Real Madrid and Portugal winger says “it is with great joy and emotion that I inform I have recently become father to a baby boy. As agreed with the baby’s mother, who prefers to have her identity kept confidential, my son will be under my exclusive guardianship.”

No date for the birth was given.

The 25-year-old Ronaldo is not married and he has asked for his child’s privacy to be respected.

Ronaldo’s agent was not available for comment.

Portugal was knocked out of the World Cup by Spain.

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